Dos and Don'ts to Nail an Impressive First Date
Dos and Don'ts to Nail an Impressive First Date
“Date” — a short word that can decide the course of your life, because it's the first time you and the other person will truly get to know each other, after meeting through various channels, whether through friends, through work, or even online, or through widely used apps like Tinder. And if your first date ends happily, it could end up changing your life entirely. Before heading out on that first date, we need to prepare as best we can. Let's take a look at the dos and the ironclad rules for guys and girls looking to nail that first date.
Things you should do
Respect the other person, whether your "lady" or your "gentleman"
The first and most important thing in love is your "attitude." If you're only thinking of
casually dating the other person, that will come through in your actions,
and sooner or later the other person will sense it.
Be as respectful and sincere as you can, because in the end, they will respect you in return.
Ditch the caveman look first
For some people, looks might not be the most important thing, but it's still the first gate
through which two people get to know each other.
If you don't prepare well and end up with unruly stubble and strong body odor
catching her eye and nose, then no matter how
"handsome at heart" you are, she probably won't see it. If you get very nervous,
apply a deodorant spray for the odor caused by stress or nervousness beforehand.
Also, if you're not sure whether she likes a thick beard, it's best to shave it off cleanly.
Speak clearly – listen closely
Everyone, without exception, likes a good listener, whether guys or girls.
But that doesn't mean you should just sit there listening to her ramble on alone. For some women, the word "uh-huh"
is practically rude. It's true that you should go along with her, but you should also share your own opinions,
or perhaps drop in a funny joke here and there — making her laugh will make the conversation much more enjoyable.
Things you must not do
Play the "leading man"
The suave, mysterious gentleman look is honestly a bit outdated these days, and she
might just see you as being "stuck-up." It's better to come across as friendly and approachable, because if she truly
likes who you really are, just sitting there being yourself is already cool enough!
Leave her stranded halfway
Anyone who wants to make a great first impression on the first date by picking her up from home or work,
but then shows up late, leaving her waiting until her face is flushed —
rest assured that this date is going to be an uphill battle,
because whatever goodwill she had toward you has already gone negative.
Wandering eyes, wandering hands
Just avoiding a "tiger" at the mouth of the alley is hard enough, and if she also has to deal with a "crocodile" with wandering eyes and wandering hands
on such an important date, she's bound to lose her mind, because every woman
wants to feel warmth and safety when she's with the man she likes. If you can't give her that,
and on top of that take advantage of her, chances are you'll be heading home alone tonight.
"So, how did it go? Did anyone accidentally break any of these rules? Better start adjusting quickly. As for whichever rules you're already doing well, keep up the good work. Finally, good luck on your first date and all the ones after it, everyone!"
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